very inspiring - hail to Malay women!

White Women vs Malay Women

Via email:

Dear Editor,I am sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Malay male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Malay male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Malay female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Malay women were slim to none.

As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Malay men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Malay women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Malay men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of, 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, ...I could go on and on.

But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Malay men, let me know.Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in Bangsar.

-----------------------------------------------This letter was written in response to the article:

Dear Editor,I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Malay man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in England with a Masters Of Science Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a Multinational Corporation and have recently purchased a house and a brand new non-national car. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Malay men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why Malay men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Malay men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The Malay girls in my neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Malay males date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of Malay men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our Malay women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Malay men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous Malay men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight.

I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Malay men date white women. Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestn! ut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.
Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your ! babies during slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Malay women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the Malay women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my Malay Queen.

It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Malay women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highestpotential while enduring great pain and suffering is! Why I have fallen in love with Malay women. I honestly believe thatyour anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.No offense taken, none given.

Signed,
Malay Professional

*pheww.. i wish i can meet this guy and belanja him for lunch?? hehehe*

yeay!

alhamdulillah, fortunately, what I've written in my last entry didnt come true.. the thing is, the application for study leave meant for those who wanted to do locally.. the dean informed me that allocation for overseas study is not out yet.. so, I got plenty of time to think about a good proposal. and alhamdulillah, Allah has guided me through this obstacle.. I even manage to call a prof on Wednesday (I really dont know what this will cost me.. hehe.. later need to pay to school) asking some idea on current geotechnical research interest. He seem a very nice person. We talked about 15minutes on phone.. and he's keen to help me.. If Allah allows, than next year we'll be here!!!! mind you guys, i havent finalised my phd place yet.. so, doa everyone, please.. so I can go here.. amin!

kalau terer sila la teka.. ki ki ki

so, today, few of my friends who applied for study leave are going for an interview.. kak aizam n sayuti, I wish you guys all the best! (I know you'll be reading this kak aizam.. hehe) InsyaAllah.. Allah will help us through..

just to update something about aiman.. lately, his cheekiness has become unevitable.. he's now clearly can say mama.. which I'm very very pleased.. and still can't pronounce papa yet.. sorry pa, it's my time now.. kih kih kih.. yesterday, I caught him on camera concentrating watching thomas n friends.. which of course is his fav cartoon.. khusyuk sampai tak sedar tak ada orang.. I asked papa to bring him out.. really pity him for not having a time outside the house as both of us are very busy lately.. sorry sayang.. in 2 weeks time i'll promise we'll make time for you.. maybe a quick holiday? (papa, please read this.. hehe) so, enjoy this pictures.. I'll catch up with blogging later.. have to attend a meeting at 10.. hehehe..

busted! hehehe.. psst, jangan tengok kawasan sepah2 tu.. mama dah tak larat nak buat apa dah.. semua barang dia

ha ha! suke sangat la tu dapat main air..

cepat la hujung minggu.. nak rehat sikit.. *sorry article lately in english.. practicing my ielts next week.. huhu

pinching myself

I wonder how somebody can cope with last minute work. I am a last minute person too.. I admit it. But somehow, when ridiculous things happen to me, I tend to get stress out. Imagine being told to submit study leave proposal by tomorrow when the offer letter came last thursday?? how on earth do they think that I can finish writing a research proposal in few days time. My head cramps and I cannot think straight!! they thought somehow a young lecturer like myself can comeout with some genius idea within a week???? aiyoh.. adding to this, the email system has already turned worse than snail mail.. some mail couldnt pass through USM while others simply too slow.. and to make thing worst, I'll be having an interview for the study leave application this Friday!! more aiyoh man!

aiyoh! this headache continues..

hampagas!

ada satu prof kat kyoto baru je bagitau mama yang email mama hantar pada dia tak boleh baca.. sebab ada spam!! hampagas betul!!! maknanya, semua prof yang mama pernah email memang tak boleh baca mail mama la.. sebab SPAM.. sebab tu haram tak ada sesapa balas email mama.. arghhh... tension gue!

how i spent my weekend

on our way to jusco seberang jaya

puas hati la kira cik abang ni jalan2 semalam

this weekend i promised myself to make full use of it.. as the whole week i was too busy to spent good time with aiman, i promise him that saturday would be his day!! so yesterday, mama and papa devoted all our time for aiman.. play with him.. fed him.. and take him out for our monthly shopping.. he seemed very happy.. we take him to the new jusco in seberang jaya.. the shopping space is quite ample.. so aiman had his fun time.. wandering around jusco.. huhu.. being cheeky is really his best attribute.. wonder where that came from.. hahaha..

kek lapis asam.. nyum nyumm

yesterday.. i managed to bake kek lapis asam.. it's my MIL recipes.. turned out very well that half of it has finished by today.. hahaha.. only managed to bring 1/4 of the cake to reen's openhouse.. kih kih.. the recipe for the cake is very easy.. but the waiting for each layer to cook was quite exhausting.. but mind you guys.. that i really love to cook.. so, waiting was just a piece of cake.. cakap bosa la pulok.. kuikuikui..

today, i cooked curry mee before we headed to reen's house.. but unfortunately, the noodle was full of boric acid that after i washed it, it turned red!!! so, the noodles dump into the trash can and i kept the gravy for tomorrow morning's breakfast..

right now, it's almost midnight, me, papa and mak teh are enjoying MammaMia Movie.. hehehe.. Meryl Streep acting is soooo damn goood!!! ooppss.. excuse my language.. and i told papa that we really need to brush up all our ABBA lyrics!!! why?? because, me, papa n wancu nana are going to watch ABBA musical!!! yeay!!! really can't wait!! we bought the tickets last 3 weeks.. it was quite expensive for a third-row seat ticket.. but really, based on all comments by those wo already watched it, i think it will be worth.. we're going to watch the play on new year!! yip yip.. can't wait!! i need to start singing now.. dancing queen, winner takes it all, mamma mia (of course!!!) etc.. banyak nyaaaaa... if arwah emak is here, i will take her to watch it.. she's really a big friend of ABBA.. hoho..

can't wait for the new year to come

so, ok.. got to go now.. am going to do movie marathon tonight.. it's going to be a blast!!!

*mamma mia, here i go again, my my, how can i resist you!!

a backdated entry of aiman's bday party and happy weekend

hohoho... dah 100th post dah rupanya.. dalam diam2 mama telah berjaya mencuri tulang untuk menulis sebanyak ini? fuiyooo.. waktu nak tulis tesis degree n master pun x serajin ini beb!! ahaks!! so, utk 100th post, mama simpan the best punya post la gitu.. mama update sket pasal weekend yang sangat menarik untuk dikongsi..

hari jumaat, mama balik ke kl dalam kul 11 gitu.. papa demam, aiman x sihat.. jadinya, mama la drive sensorang.. ooOOoo.. dah lama dah x drive balik kl sendiri.. dah namanya ada papa, kita selalu la jadi co-driver yang selalu tertidur.. kui kui kui.. sampai kl petang tu, terus aje mama ke dentist.. appointment cam biasa... malam tu mama tidur rumah emak papa.. nenek aiman dapat main2 dengan aiman puas hati gitu.. sabtu pagi, mama drive papa yang demam tu ke dentist appointment papa pulak.. then, petangnya, kami sekeluarga ke Megakidz, Midvalley... sebabnya, Aiman's bday party la.. weeeehhooooo... akhirnya, hajat mama tercapai juga.. kalau kata la nanti mama dah tak ada kat dunia ni, mama nak aiman tahu yang mama pernah buat bday party untuk aiman ye sayang..

alhamdulillah, bday party aiman berjalan dengan lancar sangat2.. ramai yang sudi hadir.. almaklum, waktu2 raya ni ramai yang sibuk.. tapi mama berbesar hati sungguh sebab ramai sudi hadir.. dan present untuk aiman pun banyaaaakkkkk.. hohoho.. tochei2..

so, bday party aiman yang besar sikit ni, theme thomas and friends.. aiman suka betul dengan thomas.. boleh terpaku depan tv kalau tgk thomas.. haha.. petang tu ramai kawan2 aiman n mama papa yang sudi hadir (ikut turutan la ye).. antaranya,

• maklong, paklong n abang shafiq (awal gitu datang)
• aunty zeti n mika (mika punya rambut cute sgt..
• aunty hanim (aunty, nama Aiman memang pendek aje laaa)
• aunty ujick
• aunty azah, uncle and heidi (cute sangat heidi.. happy go lucky)
• aunty syu and adam (x sempat auntie main2 dengan adam aritu ye)
• aunty esah, uncle raman n haikal (haikal enjoy sampai habis party.. hehe)
• aunty nisa, uncle firdaus n adam (sian kat adam demam)
• aunty nisa', uncle zeli n danish (x puas auntie nak kenal danish)
• aunty izan n uncle
• aunty aweng n uncle mel
• aunty atie, uncle kairel n anas (datang rumah tok ayah lagi gitu)
• tok dad cik, pah mom cik, auntie anis, uncle cik n uncle chu
• pah chu, uncle arshad, auntie tisya, uncle kalil n uncle ahmad
• tok ayah + wancu + mak teh + pak ngah amin (memang wajib gitu)
• mak lang n uncle shafiq (puas hati depa dua ni main.. hehehe)

ha.. alhamdulillah, ramai la yang datang bday aiman.. sorry sangat sebab tak terlayan.. dengan aiman meragam sikit2.. sebab dah letih n wancu kasik aiman pening lompat2 atas balloon tu.. huhuhu.. thanks for everything ye.. we love all of you.. insyaAllah, ada ruang kelapangan, boleh kita berkumpul lagi ye tak??

so, enjoy these piccas.. mama can't wait for the photographer piccas.. nanti mama habaq kendian okey..

mama n papa giving speech.. thanking everybody who came to the party

hungry aiman with cheeky mama

from left: pak ngah, mak teh n wancu in the house

guests.. love you guys

the birthday cake.. i ordered choc moist.. but instead i got butter cake.. turned out quite nice.. funny thing about this cake was that i bought the candle from the shop next door.. i wondered why i was quite expensive.. it turned out to be singing candle.. believe me.. it's true.. quite nice!

aiman's pressies.. thank you soooo much.. jazakallah..

*thanks a lot.. to everybody for all presents.. and to those who gave duit raya too.. aiman penuh kocek this raya.. huhu

mama stress

minggu ini adalah minggu yang paling sibuk dalam tahun 2008.. mama nak kongsi sket nape mama stress dan nape blog ni sepi sekejap..

1. mama stress sebab hari hari dalam minggu ni mama kerja dari 8.00 am sampai 10.30pm.. hari ni hari terakhir prep class IELTS.. esok harap2 boleh kurang sikit stress bab ni
2. mama stress sebab kerja bertimbum dan banyak dateline next week.. gilerrrr ahhh.. ini la penangan APEX u ni..
3. mama stress sebab mama tak berjaya lagi upload gambar aiman punya bday party.. yang kawan2 mama minta nak tengok.. hish!! geram la.. tak reti pulak mama nak bega2 nak upload dari photobucket.. dah masuk kat sana tapi tak boleh nak upload kat blogspot.. help anyone? pleeaaassseeee..
4. mama stress sebab badan dah sakit2 dah ni.. tapi cuba bertahan sekuat mungkin.. at least sampai hujung bulan ni.. (next week la tu)
5. mama stress sebab bulan ni mama kena menses 2 kali.. dan mama tak berjaya habiskan puasa 6!!
6. mama stress sebab proposal tak hantar lagi.. supervisor tak reply mail mama.. mama stress banget bab ni!!!
7. mama stress sebab banyak sangat meeting kena attend.. minggu ni aje ade dekat 5 meeting mama attend.. tak produktif aku minggu ni..
8. mama stress sebab ada 2 journal paper dah print, tapi tak dapat baca lagi.. stress juga sebab cita2 nak baca buku cerita ayat- ayat cinta masih tidak berjaya..
9. stress juga tgk rumah cam tongkang.. nasib baik ada irda (mak teh aiman) bantu kat rumah sikit2.. sayang mak teh.. tq tq tq

aiyo! banyak betul stress minggu ni.. tak boleh la nak bayang camne weekend ni.. mesti tak menarik langsung.. duh!

*i think i need a vacation.. ASAP** (ayat cam boss bagi kat mama pasal pi belajar.. huhu.. mama tanya, "prof, ASAP prof tu asap tebal ke asap nipis?" kui kui kui.. memang nak kena staf dia sekor ni.. ahaks)

**ASAP -As Soon As Possible

yippie.. it's aiman's bday

japanese english = japlish

mentang2 le mama dah consider nak pi jepun, maka selalu la mama dapat email lawak2 macam ni.. ni dari shikin.. kawan mama kat utm dulu.. enjoy!

huh?? sexual harassment??

hahahhaa.. erection!!! akakakakkaka

2 hari yang beeezzzzeeee

adoi! petang selasa ni mama dah penat banget.. belum pum sampai hari jumaat.. macam mana nih!! banyak benda nak kena disiapkan.. kena buat checklist!!

• isnin - tele-conference meeting with MMU & Uniten kat induk -checked!
• selasa - jamuan raya office, kena jadi emcee & pengarah majlis -checked!
• rabu - pulangkan proposal final year project student + perjumpaan dengan first year student
• khamis - meeting dengan dr habibah geohazard group
• jumaat - balik kl + dentist appointment
• sabtu - birthday party aiman + sambutan raya BTR
• ahad - balik parit buntar..

haiyooooooooo... mama sampai hujung bulan ni calendar dah packed.. itu tak masuk kerja2 lain yang lagi memoningkan kepala!!!! haiyo! kain baju idak lipat, rumah macam tongkang, submission report yang berlambak, phd application, itu la, ini la.. boleh terbalik mama ni..

weekend yang bakal sibuk

harini mama nak cabut balik awal.. sebabnya, malam ni abah n adik mama nak sampai.. rumah macam tongkang karam.. tak rupa rumah orang!! jadi kena balik utk spring clean gitu.. err.. spring lepas ye tak?? hahaha..

esok, mama ada jemputan kenduri dan open house kat ipoh n penang.. ahad, rumah nak kena serbu dengan kawan2 terchenta.. jadinya, kena la bersih2 apa yang patut.. nak prepare menu utk tetamu lagi.. uuuu..

okey.. mama roger n out!!

mengular di tengahari

pagi tadi, mama heret papa teman mama ambil placement test dekat british council.. mama nak ambil IELTS exam.. placement test tu utk tengok kita punya level okey ke tidak.. huhu.. mama ingat dah berkarat betul english mama, rupanya upper-intermediate gitu level mama dapat.. weeehoooo.. last time (1999) mama ambil placement exam kat BC, mama cuma intermediate aje.. hohoho.. alhamdulillah.. kira lepas le untuk sit IELTS nanti.. mama ambil prep course IELTS hujung bulan ni dan exam dia kena ambil bulan 11 (8/11/08) sebab bulan ni punya dah penuh.. nasib la baik sebab nama mama untuk early nov tu pun yang terakhir sekali.. hehehe..


lepas settle dekat BC tadi, papa ajak mama gi gurney plaza.. sebab haritu dia beli belt kat situ.. dia nak potong kasi pendek sikit.. kami lunch dulu kat korean BBQ chicken (sedapnye ayam teriyaki dia.. kali ke3 dah ni) kami masuk la ingat nak ke parkson kasi settle papa punya hal.. sekali parkson dia tutup daaa.. agaknya untuk renovation dia kut.. mama pun asalnya ingat nak singgah parkson nak cari balang kuih.. sebab rumah nak kena serbu weekend ni.. balang kuih hapa pun tak ada.. huhuhu..


sebab parkson dah tutup, kami pusing la gurney plaza tu kejap.. sekali terjumpa kedai ni.. apa laie.. mama pujuk baikkkk punya kat papa, kami try la fish spa dia.. weekdays harga murah sikit.. fish spa + foot reflexology = RM61.20 (harga asal RM81/pax) huhu.. what an experience.. mula2 macam geli2 juga.. sebab kena masuk pool yang ade dr. fish yang kecil2.. pastu baru pindah ke kolam sedang dan kolam besar.. masuk 30 mins pun dah rasa puas betul.. mama rekemen la kat semua.. cuba la spa ni.. kaki rasa bersih wooo.. lepas tu, buat foot massage pulak.. huhuhu.. selesa betul kaki.. rasa macam nak terbang je..

kat sini laa.. kenko fish spa..

ini kaki papa ye.. bukan kaki mama.. kena serbu dengan fish wooo

papa menahan geli yang amat sangat

muka kelegaan dah selesai spa.. jom balik ofis bang!!

hehe, sekian untuk episod mengular saya harini.. sempat lagi balik ofis update blog.. hampagas betul!!

aiman at 13 months

alhamdulillah.. harini, hero mama dah turn 13 months.. weeeehhoooo.. dah besar dah dia.. biasalah, mama nak update sket pasal aiman..

1. aiman dah berjalan laju dah.. uuuu.. tak larat mama kejar..

2. aiman suka manja2 dengan semua orang

3. aiman jugak pandai buat 'derk'.. dari mana la datang bakat tu ye.. hohoho

4. aiman suka main car.. lagi2 car orang lain punya.. suka berebut lak tu.. eeee.. geram

5. aiman dah makin cheeky.. mama kadang2 rasa macam nak gigit je dia..

6. dah pandai merajuk.. aritu merajuk dengan mama lama tuuu..

7. dah pandai marah bila barang kat tangan dia diambil

8. suka tengok buku cerita dia.. kadang2 layan cakap sorang2 gitu..

9. aiman pandai geleng bila tak mahu apa2.. angguk x reti

10. cakap bahasa bulan bintang memang kepakaran aiman..

hehehe.. semoga aiman sihat, kuat dan membesar jadi anak yang soleh dan sayang mama selalu.. muah!!

raya entry - episode 2

huhu.. memandangkan ni first aidilfitri dengan family mil, mama nak kabarkan sket.. mama memang kantol makan lontong hari2.. kakakaka.. dasar tekak orang utara betul!! tak biasa.. tapi usaha la jugak makan hari2.. selalunya, sekali sekala je makan lontong.. tapi sebab beraya di johor.. ape laie.. makan lontong aje la.. kui kui kui.. takpe.. pelan2 nanti okey la kan? hahaha.. selalunya pagi raya makan ketupat palas.. tapi orang johor beraya makan nasi impit.. kira berbeza betul la dengan tekak mama.. tapi rezeki jangan ditolak.. mama bedal aje.. hahaha.. raya ketiga tu 7 buah rumah kami pusing (rumah wak mujirin, rumah kak hamidah, rumah mak ngah, rumah abg khairi, rumah kak yati kat kluang, rumah abg zul dan rumah abg yus).. sampai tengah malam baru balik rumah wak tumi.. huhuhuhu.. puas beraya betul.. aiman pun tak agak2.. pukul 1 pagi baru dia tidur.. belasah main je mamat tu.. sakan betul..

5 kereta serbu rumah kak yati malam tu.. hahahaha

raya keempat tu sebelum balik kl, kami ke rumah wak kamisah dan ke kulai beraya rumah anak wak tumi (kak ana).. mula2 tu risau jugak sebab takut jem.. alhamdulillah.. perjalanan kami balik ke kl mudah betul hari tu.. macam takde raya je.. tak jem.. sampai kl petang sabtu tu dalam jam 7.. drop mil and sil.. pastu balik rumah abah mama.. beraya dengan depa.. malam tu tergolek pengsan keletihan kul 10 malam.. itupun lepas tengok tv.. hahaha.

esok la pulak mama samb entry raya ni.. nak samb kerja.. kekekeke

raya entry - episode 1

bangun pagi2 raya tu awal le jugak.. lepas subuh, terus bersilat kat dapur.. sebab mama janji dengan nenek aiman nak buat caramel pudding.. huhuhu.. dengan aiman merengek nye.. kira mencabar jugak la.. hahaha.. lepas mandikan aiman dan siapkan dia baru mama dapat bersiap.. satu taman permata boleh dengar suara mama berleter kat aiman pagi tu.. buat pe'el la pulak mamat tu.. hehehe... dia pun tak berapa sihat lagi.. mama nye pulak sabar senipis bawang.. ha.. ape laie.. bertempik la kiranya.. keh keh keh..

lepas salam2 pagi raya, kami sempat bergambar sekeluarga.. tapi takde gambar yang aiman duduk elok2.. semuanya muka nangis.. huwaaa.. keciwa la mama.. tahun ni kami bertiga tema kuning.. dan inilah first time mama beraya (aidilfitri) kat rumah mil.. huhuhuhu.. sayu beb.. tak sama la.. dah biasa balik kampung, tiba2 kena raya KL bosan seh.. mati kutu.. hahaha.. first day tu kami dapat beraya sebuah rumah aje.. rumah mak cik papa.. dia pun tak berapa sihat.. terlantar je.. sian cik.. pas tu, kami beli mcD makan kat rumah mil mama.. huhuhu.. raya pertama kiranya macam mati kutu la jugak sebab tak pergi beraya rumah sedara mara.. selalunya kalau mama balik kampung, mesti sakan beraya.. hahaha..

my in-laws.. nak mamam pagi raya
ramli clan.. hehehe..

us bertiga.. yellow makes me look fat, isn't it?

see.. aiman tak duduk diam.. mama sekeh kang baru tau.. hehehe..

raya kedua baru mama n family semua balik ke parit bengkok, batu pahat.. kampung mil mama.. kami lepak2 kat rumah wak tumi 2 malam gitu.. puas akhirnya beraya kat kampung.. sakan la jugak kami beraya.. dalam perjalanan ke batu pahat, mama sempat singgah rumah best friend mama.. chema.. kat bukit piatu.. makan soto sup tulang.. uuuUUuu.. kow kow gitu.. sedap tak hengat.. petang tu baru sampai batu pahat.. masing2 dah letih, jadinya raya ketiga baru mama keluar beraya ke rumah sedara2 kat bp..

okey.. sambung entry episode 2 pulak ye..

before raya entry.. a backdated post

dah lebih seminggu balik raya.. sakan betul, harini masuk la balik ofis.. biasa la.. time2 macamni rasa macam tak pergi kerja lagi baik.. produktiviti tak bagus langsung.. hahaha.. sebelum mula apa2, harini nak blogging sepuas hati dulu.. hehehe...

cerita sebelum raya haritu.. mama n family balik kl hari sabtu (27 september) pagi2 hari.. sampai rumah abah mama around 3pm.. lepak2 sebelum masuk dapur siap makanan berbuka.. masak simple aje.. sebabnya, malam tu ude (adik arwah emak) dah janji nak datang rumah lepas berbuka..

pukul 8.40pm family ude sampai.. diikuti family wancik n family wancu.. kat rumah tinggal mama n aiman je.. abah mama, papa, n wancu nana pi terawih dulu.. buat 8 rakaat je.. pastu balik rumah... ude mai singgah rumah abah mama sebab nak celebrate birthday ramai2.. ade birthday aizat (anak ude 25 sept), abah mama (24 sept), aiman (7 sept), farah (err.. 28 sept yek?? alahai.. terlupa) n wancu nana (2 oct) kira sekali harung la... sedap kek ude beli.. choc indulgence secret recipe.. nyum2.. ude siap beli sate lagi.. erk.. kenyang betul malam tu... huhuhuhu..

sesi nak memotong kek.. nyah farah x sempat masuk.. huhuhu

abdul hamid clan.. hehe.. minus arwah emak..

ahad tu kami lepak2 rumah je.. mama n papa sempat ke jalan tar nak cari tudung raya mama.. munawwarah dah tutup.. jadi kami beli kat ariani jalan tar.. huhu.. ramai betul orang hari tu.. last minute shopping la.. kami keluar tak bawa aiman pun.. sebab takut dia meragam.. aiman pun tak berapa sihat sangat.. demam.. pastu terus balik rumah.. petang ahad tu, mama n family berbuka kat palace of golden horses.. hehehe.. belanja abah mama n adik punya birthday.. haritu baru kami tau, rupanya 3 hari terakhir, semua hotel kat kl ada 20% off utk berbuka puasa.. uuuu.. kenyang betul.. foodwise memang berbaloi.. sedap pun sedap jugak.. balik semua terdampar kekenyangan.. hehehe.. merasa jugak berbuka kat hotel kl tahun ni.. ngeh ngeh..

birthday girl and birthday boys..

konon2 pembesar negara gitu.. ekekke

muka muka kekenyangan

isnin tu kami ke rumah mil mama.. sebelum pi rumah mil, papa ke dentist.. selesaikan yang patut2.. hehe.. mama pula bawa aiman gi damai.. sebabnya, aiman wheezing.. demam pun kejap naik, kejap turun.. risau betul... doc siap suruh ambil darah lagi sebab takut chikugunya.. uuu.. alhamdulillah tak ade apa2.. kalau tidak, mau aiman tak beraya.. sempat la jugak aiman ambil nebulizer bagi clear hidung dia.. kalau tidak susah betul dia nak tidur.. tengahari baru sampai rumah mil.. bukan jauh pung.. hahahaha.. taman permata je.. kih kih kih.. malam isnin tu mama kat dapur dengan adik ipar.. dia buat kek lapis asam.. mama tumpang2 aje.. sampai lapisan ke 6 mama cabut tidur.. hampagas betul.. keh keh keh..

day before raya, mama sempat lagi ke klcc.. cari kasut raya aiman.. dan last minute makeup shopping.. huhuhu.. ye la.. kasik sedondon dengan baju gitu.. ngelat lari dari rumah mil.. aiman pun meragam je.. jadinya kalau duduk rumah pun kacau mil je.. tapi tengahari tu dah balik rumah dah.. kiranya sempat le jugak mama bantu2 buat apa yang patut.. mama prepare bread pudding utk berbuka hari tu.. kira ada la gak contribution kan kan kan? (hahaha.. ayat rasa bersalah) malam raya tu mama bergegas la gosok baju papa, aiman n baju mama.. takut pagi raya terkocoh2.. huhuhu.. pastu lepak2 dengan adik2 papa depan tv.. tidur pun agak awal jugak.. sebab letih dah seharian tu layan aiman meragam.. huhuhuhu.. smbung entry raya la plak

ehehe.. tahun ni mama tinggal posa 6 hari je.. boleh le ganti jadi puasa enam je tahun ni.. yippiee